https://www.chriseby.net/blog daily 0.75 2024-07-15 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1600974119662-Y4GO7E7GL5RVGNW3NFHH/OP+1.PNG Blog https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1600986672414-N7L9Y6DHOFUEJCEKYPED/OP+2+rev.PNG Blog https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1599852830179-NJ3N53K4A0I6UIFIJJLM/Kevin+message.png Blog - UPDATE 08/10/2020: So, after Chris’s stepdaughter reached out to me yesterday, I was lucky enough to receive messages from her intelligent, well-spoken brothers as well. One even included a threat, stating that they are not a family to be messed with. NOTE: This obviously a lot of bluster from a bunch of Facebook tough guys, as Chris Eby has messed with their family and yet they still defend this "man". Don’t worry dear readers, I have turned the threats over to the proper authorities. Interestingly enough, I know for a fact that one of the brothers Brandon caught his wife cheating, so you’d think he would have little sympathy for a "man" who was/is hurting his own mother. But, apparently, he enjoys being a cuckold and I should “get over it.” Sigh… If only my reaction was just about being cheated on. If only I could take these “wise” siblings’ advice and “get over it.” I can’t help but wonder if one of their daughters came to them and told them that their partner had talked them into quitting their job, leaving their friends and family to move across the country, and promised marriage only to find out that it was all a lie...would he tell her to “get over it.” Is this what they are telling their mother? “Yeah yeah yeah mom. I know he has cheated on you for 4 years. I know he had a whole other life with another woman in Texas. But mom, look at the nice house you live in! Get over it!” Or, maybe, as the obviously more eloquent brother said, “boo fucking hoo.” https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1599853083678-Q8QJJXNAQ6Z2WSCA69XU/Ashley+Message.png Blog - UPDATE August 9, 2020: So, today someone else reached out to me about this website. Not Chris. His step-daughter. Before I share what she sent me, I want to share two things that struck me about receiving a message from her. The first is that Chris insisted he could do whatever he wanted, fuck with my life however he pleased, because he had money “and everything, including people’s dignity is for sale.” After reading what she wrote me, I guess he was right. The second is that after I broke up with Chris for the final time, and he began his campaign of harassment against me, driving up to my apartment in the middle of the night, sending me messages, continually telling me that he was in the process of divorcing his wife, and of course the gun pictures, I reached out to this woman and her mother, Jeri. I begged her for help. I pleaded with them to please ask him to stop harassing me. They did nothing. They were not willing to lift one finger to help the victim of harassment - or to tell their husband and step father to stop chasing another woman who had ended the relationship. Guess I should’ve offered to top whatever Chris was paying her. Here is her message to the left: Now, I won’t address her grammar, her misspellings, her childish use of all caps. But, there are a few things I would like to address. 1) I fucked with peoples jobs? What does she think talking me into quitting my job and moving across country did for my job? 2) I fucked with friendships? Is it possible I just opened some eyes to what was really going on? Maybe Chris will need to buy a new set of friends. Oh well… 3) Does she have any idea what being gaslighted by a sociopathic narcissist for over four years does to someone’s mental health? By calling it a “pitty” (ok, I know I said I wouldn’t bring up the misspellings but come on…) she disrespects not only me, but every other abused woman and man out there. I truly thought women were better than this. Remember, I wasn’t the only victim here. Her mother remains married to this man. If someone told me this truth about the man my mother married, I would be thanking her for telling me, so I could save my mother from the hell she must be living in. Oh well, when Chris Eby is your step-father, I guess you have to earn your Christmas present somehow. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1599852171603-0JQT3DZ83UMJQR94ZYLR/Text+1.png Blog July 15, 2020 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1599852139123-5GNGAIPRRJSMPKSLOH0E/test+2.png Blog July 11, 2020 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1596751482516-NDWHM5IYEJQ8FHJ7OSOB/Red+Flags.PNG Blog Do you know a narcissist? https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1596751788175-AL48QJYX6ZSDW6GS73QH/Red+flag+2.PNG Blog https://www.chriseby.net/blog/someone-wrote-about-him-the-smallest-man-who-ever-lived monthly 0.5 2024-07-15 https://www.chriseby.net/lookbook daily 0.75 2020-09-12 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1596383219821-3H020II9VLD1W8OEAI5U/Text+1.png Gallery https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1596383184694-6LRITBM1WAVJJ0HVLNJ9/test+2.png Gallery https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1595985252823-3N90VI7G31ISSB5G802Q/Whiskey+Fest.jpg Gallery Working on the relationship starting again - which turned out to be a lie. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1595985273198-6QXMJGKQ9P5FMK12ZMGP/Chris+and+Carol.png Gallery A few weeks after the wedding when he surprised me with a trip. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1595985364397-OCZM55Z36HVWNRAC8Z56/Chris+and+Carol+11.jpg Gallery Chris Eby and CJ on New Years Day 2020 trying to reunite...or so CJ thought. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1596383249785-0CELGEL5PNHE192903T2/Fredericksburg+2.jpg Gallery Weekend in Fredricksburg, TX wine country for my birthday. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1599937723431-KYB91H3PIIWR1KV4PGVV/May+9.png Gallery https://www.chriseby.net/home daily 1.0 2022-05-19 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1600973932671-MWZSYYESINODUDNW6OMS/OP+1.PNG Home Felony charges for any contact. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1600986616062-73T0LD432ODPEAI1SSYT/OP+2+rev.PNG Home Turn over guns and concealed carry permit. Neiher he nor any thrid party can contact me. Felony charge if found with guns or ammo. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1596383433688-M9VP0PP6J1AC6BXDF9SJ/Text+1.png Home July 15, 2020 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1597448872821-WIRQYZCVSN5QRWPR37JC/Chris+and+Carol.png Home Chris and CJ on a surprise glamping trip he planned for her in August 2018, a few weeks after his wedding. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1595983886407-FI27881ALQVDFG30UQMU/Chris+1.jpg Home Chris Eby at the Goshen Moose Campground Memorial Day Weekend 2020. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1599936919446-7UDQT9UARP6FYD7XK95E/Kevin+message.png Home Update: Aug 10, 2020 So, after Chris’s stepdaughter reached out to me yesterday, I was lucky enough to receive messages from her intelligent, well-spoken brothers as well. One even included a threat, stating that they are not a family to be messed with. NOTE: This obviously a lot of bluster from a bunch of Facebook tough guys, as Chris Eby has messed with their family and yet they still defend this "man". Don’t worry dear readers, I have turned the threats over to the proper authorities. Interestingly enough, I know for a fact that one of the brothers Brandon caught his wife cheating, so you’d think he would have little sympathy for a "man" who was/is hurting his own mother. But, apparently, he enjoys being a cuckold and I should “get over it.” Sigh… If only my reaction was just about being cheated on. If only I could take these “wise” siblings’ advice and “get over it.” I can’t help but wonder if one of their daughters came to them and told them that their partner had talked them into quitting their job, leaving their friends and family to move across the country, and promised marriage only to find out that it was all a lie...would he tell her to “get over it.” Is this what they are telling their mother? “Yeah yeah yeah mom. I know he has cheated on you for 4 years. I know he had a whole other life with another woman in Texas. But mom, look at the nice house you live in! Get over it!” Or, maybe, as the obviously more eloquent brother said, “boo fucking hoo.” https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1599937153349-338T0JIVOC2YX1TG53HT/Ashley+Message.png Home UPDATE August 9, 2020: So, today someone else reached out to me about this website. Not Chris. His step-daughter. Before I share what she sent me, I want to share two things that struck me about receiving a message from her. The first is that Chris insisted he could do whatever he wanted, fuck with my life however he pleased, because he had money “and everything, including people’s dignity is for sale.” After reading what she wrote me, I guess he was right. The second is that after I broke up with Chris for the final time, and he began his campaign of harassment against me, driving up to my apartment in the middle of the night, sending me messages, continually telling me that he was in the process of divorcing his wife, and of course the gun pictures, I reached out to this woman and her mother, Jeri. I begged her for help. I pleaded with them to please ask him to stop harassing me. They did nothing. They were not willing to lift one finger to help the victim of harassment - or to tell their husband and step father to stop chasing another woman who had ended the relationship. Guess I should’ve offered to top whatever Chris was paying her. Here is her message on the right: Now, I won’t address her grammar, her misspellings, her childish use of all caps. But, there are a few things I would like to address. 1) I fucked with peoples jobs? What does she think talking me into quitting my job and moving across country did for my job? 2) I fucked with friendships? Is it possible I just opened some eyes to what was really going on? Maybe Chris will need to buy a new set of friends. Oh well… 3) Does she have any idea what being gaslighted by a sociopathic narcissist for four years does to someone’s mental health? By calling it a “pitty” (ok, I know I said I wouldn’t bring up the misspellings but come on…) she disrespects not only me, but every other abused woman and man out there. I truly thought women were better than this. Remember, I wasn’t the only victim here. Her mother remains married to this man. If someone told me this truth about the man my mother married, I would be thanking her for telling me, so I could save my mother from the hell she must be living in. Oh well, when Chris Eby is your step-father, I guess you have to earn your Christmas present somehow. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1595985042338-K54NB6OQNP3OIE6CUN25/Chris%2B2.jpg Home Chris Eby in Dallas, 2020 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1596383383884-Y6LUV4AU9H9SCUOH59D6/test+2.png Home July 11, 2020 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f20c3cf352bfc483b0c2306/1596498861295-GB48U6YF4DQTSWOYF67G/screenshot+%282%29.png Home A few years too late I think… https://www.chriseby.net/contact daily 0.75 2020-08-04